Holy shit you’re still posting about this? There are multiple different types of finance. What he does is still finance. You need to move on.

It sounds like he knew you were upset and had an interview today so he wanted to let you sleep…..

It sounds like you’re holding to him to a standard of specific actions that he doesn’t know are important to you. You need to talk to him about what you want, you can’t expect him to just know that a goodnight text every night is important to you. It sounds like he absolutely does show you his love, just in his way, because there hasn’t been clear communication about how you want to be shown love.

Unless this is actually self sabotage, this is 100% fixable by a simple kind and respectful conversation about getting on the same page of how both of you want to receive love. But please know that the situation isn’t him not giving the same love you are. It’s the two of you giving in different ways.

You simply aren’t compatible. She shouldn’t have to apologize for not being ready to have sex.

Why the hell would you message him again? Did you not get enough satisfaction from helping him cheat before?

I wouldn’t be with someone who acted like that

That’s pathetic honestly

Hanging out with the opposite sex one on one? Not a problem. Hanging out with someone you had sex with one on one? Problem.

This is not appropriate.

You don’t. This marriage is going to end. Though I do believe this is fake since you posted the exact same thing yesterday with her wanting to be a stripper rather than a prostitute.

Sounds like you must have said something super shitty

Edit — lol it appears you’re upset that other people liked the new episode of the last of us when you didn’t. Nice

Nothing

This is honestly absurd. You need to focus on how outlandish and absurd you’re being and remind yourself that this is not something to care about.

That sounds incredibly exhausting

He doesn’t need to. There’s nothing else to explain. Your views on relationships no longer line up.

Yeah that’s entirely fair. He isn’t poly so he isn’t going to stay with you.

Entitlement to sex, and being pathetic

Yes, the advice is to respect his boundary.

Plenty of men don’t like it. You need to respect that.

If I had plans with someone I know is flaky I would always confirm with them. Like I said - they should be proactive, but at this point it’s on you too since you know how they are.

Sounds like your assumption is wrong. You do in fact need to confirm every week whether he’s coming or not. Should he be proactive about it? Absolutely. Are you also capable of asking the question to avoid this outcome? Absolutely.