russ257 t1_j2biph4 wrote

Ignore the question of the law. There are other moral dilemmas at play. Grandpa gave your husband that money to use for school. If he no longer wants to go to school he should call grandpa and tell him so and give the money back. If grandpa then refuses the money and says spend it on what you like then you are clear. If grandpa wants it back then you give it back because it was never really your to do whatever you want with.


russ257 t1_j1bai8i wrote

I would settle down on purchases till you get here and have a feel for it. I don’t live up in Erie which does have some lake effect snow, but I don’t wear snow boots every day, only when there is an active storm. A pair of hiking type boots or something like that is probably more normal for day to day winter wear.