sadbalm
sadbalm t1_iujrfbx wrote
Reply to comment by Rporrangel in I showed her my music and she stopped replying. by Rporrangel
no, i didn’t say any of that. that’s a really inaccurate paraphrasing of my points. let me simplify:
•misogyny is not cool, interesting, or artistic
•misogyny is not an appealing character to put on
•why would you write these lyrics if you’re not like, an incel?
•you asked why she stopped replying after you sent her this crap, and i told you. you don’t have to agree or disagree. i can almost guarantee this is why she doesn’t talk to you anymore.
any questions?
sadbalm t1_iujm70y wrote
Reply to comment by Rporrangel in I showed her my music and she stopped replying. by Rporrangel
i don’t think misogyny and addiction make a fun or acceptable character to put on. if this is truly not how you think and view the world, why would u ask the second question? it seems very contrary to say “this is completely not me… but why should i have to sugarcoat my truth to fit in with society?” i do judge artists by what they put in their work. especially when they are expressing bigotry through it, character or not. i think you’ve got your answer as to why this woman stopped responding— you scared her off with your musical “character” and she feels uncomfortable with what you’ve expressed through your music.
sadbalm t1_iujbkb7 wrote
Reply to comment by Rporrangel in I showed her my music and she stopped replying. by Rporrangel
but she has no idea if these are your views on women in general or if it’s a “character” you’re doing. i’ll be honest, the lyrics alone read as a huge red flag to potential partners…
sadbalm t1_iu7ig1l wrote
Reply to comment by DanglyPants in When music stores were way more prominent, did you ever just ask an employee for a random recommendation that ended up blowing your mind? What did they recommend? by duomtl
i feel lucky to have a quite a few in my city. guess it just depends on the area you live in!
sadbalm t1_iuk87f5 wrote
Reply to comment by Loudstrat64 in What song makes you feel like you can destroy a city with the twitch of your finger? by Boyswithaxes
so edgy