salty_worms

salty_worms OP t1_je6qo8p wrote

Ive done 3 types of BC and i dont like them. Im done with synthetic hormons and i have such an intense fear of pregnancy, id kill myself if i got pregnant. IUDs arnt 100% at preventing pregnancy. I want the ablasion so no kids, no periods amd no hormones

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salty_worms OP t1_je5b4i3 wrote

Im 17. Blead for almkst a year straight, 24/7 when i was 13. Started hormonal BC at 14 and been on it pretty much ever since. I hate my mood swings from it amd the constant irritability and suicidal ideation. Ive tried 3 different kinds and the couple times i whent off bc for a few months i blead nonstop. The first 2 BC didnt control the bleeding very good. They did an ultrasound last july as well as a CMP. Nothing wrong. When i was 16 they did a THS (or TSH i cant remember) and a CMP. Everything is normal, there is no cause for bleeding.

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salty_worms OP t1_je57syo wrote

I live in CA, i did call my doctor yesturday to ask about it but I could only get ahold of the advice nurse. He seemed supportive even though im 17. Ive seen some sources saying in CA a women needs to be 21, others saying she needs to be 18. A doctor will call me back at some point to disscuss it more, ive been saving for this since I was 16 and have been wanting it since I was 13.

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salty_worms OP t1_je2hbqc wrote

My mom asked about procedures when she was my age too, she was the same way but there wasnt BC back then. She didnt want to become steril but wjen she asked what could be done they refused to help her at all due to her fertility. Times have changed so hopefully i can find domekne but a lot of my friends have parents who are nurses or doctors, they all say it doesnt matter how bad my period is or how horrible BC ruins my mental health, sterilazation isnt an option for 18 year olds. Plus in CA it is illegal to electivly sterilize a women untill she is 21

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salty_worms OP t1_je2f0ak wrote

That sucks that it was squashed. Im 17 and was looking at NH as my hope to become steril when im 18. Without birthcontrol i bleed nonstop, all day every day. Ive been on BC for 4 years and it sucks. I just wanted an ablasion so I wont have periods and I can stop my BC. I also dont want kids and am terrified of being pregnant.

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