> I’m also worried that I’ll be responsible for ruining his life if I break up with him.
He won't be ruined. He'll be single. There's a difference. Understand the difference. He'll have to deal with his own needs, which are not huge. Asking for some minimal effort in a relationship shouldn't result in disaster. He's carrying on like the world is ending. It's not.
sanguinare12 t1_iujrz62 wrote
Reply to My bf is threatening self-harm because of a conversation we had by chucklago555
> I’m also worried that I’ll be responsible for ruining his life if I break up with him.
He won't be ruined. He'll be single. There's a difference. Understand the difference. He'll have to deal with his own needs, which are not huge. Asking for some minimal effort in a relationship shouldn't result in disaster. He's carrying on like the world is ending. It's not.