shrimpfajita
shrimpfajita t1_jeaj63f wrote
Why do you wanna work it out with someone that is already being shady, not even just once but regularly…
shrimpfajita t1_je6z7k6 wrote
Don’t date potential. Who he is is clearly not who you want.
shrimpfajita t1_j6lwfv3 wrote
Reply to Me (20 F) cannot control emotions, reactions and accusatory thoughts towards bf ( 20 M) we’ve dated for 2 years by notaseriousmember
I think if you haven’t already been screened for BPD, do so as soon as you’re able. You were right to distance yourself while you get sorted.
shrimpfajita t1_j6kcke5 wrote
Reply to 19F and 44M by tushitouuu
You’ve got to be joking. Cmon now. I’m 30 and he’s still too old.
shrimpfajita t1_j2fr3dc wrote
Reply to comment by ThrowRAnewyears2023 in [23f] [24m] Husband keeps cheating and lying about it. by ThrowRAnewyears2023
You already know so what difference is that going to make
shrimpfajita t1_j2f6inm wrote
You don’t need to see the phone. What are you hoping will happen?
shrimpfajita t1_j2f2n0h wrote
Reply to comment by [deleted] in (34F)(32M) Why men play stupid when you call them out? by ThrowRAgreenapple
Answer my question, is this guy your ideal person.. Because if he isn’t, are you also lying about being attracted to him?
You’re being weird. It’s so unnecessary
shrimpfajita t1_j2ezezz wrote
Why do you care? You wanna fuck, you’re doing just that, so what’s the issue?
Is he the pinnacle of desire to you, does he embody the man of your dreams?
shrimpfajita t1_iyfdrms wrote
Reply to comment by [deleted] in Girl rejected me then started flirting with our other coworker by [deleted]
That’s not really your concern though is it.
shrimpfajita t1_iyamdn0 wrote
Reply to Why do men don't approach me? by [deleted]
Is your personality off-putting
shrimpfajita t1_iukb62q wrote
Reply to If your partner gave you the password to their social media, would you snoop to find out about who they were with or messaged before you? by InterestingWitness76
I have nothing to gain from that so no. If you overthink, that can only be worsened. Get it together
shrimpfajita t1_iukagjl wrote
8 years doesn’t need to turn into 15, 20+ You’re not even 30, prime has not passed for either of you. I also don’t know why you stuck around with someone you don’t even seem to like but don’t do that again.
shrimpfajita t1_iuk9rps wrote
Reply to comment by Smulch in Boyfriend told me he had a porn addiction. He went to therapy and is now saying he doesn’t. I broke up with him when he first told me. by [deleted]
An active addiction is not something that has to casually come up a year into a relationship. Are you feeling a little attacked, is that the reason for your unreasonable and aggressive response?
shrimpfajita t1_iuiyegd wrote
Having a child so young most likely stunted her development. She’s spending like a kid because she mentally still is one. That’s unfortunate but she’s just gonna have to learn the hard way, as long as she’s not asking you for money I’d simply distance myself.
shrimpfajita t1_iuisr4i wrote
Reply to Sister is constantly doing drugs, abusing friends and destroying relationships by ottersarecool98
Help YOURSELVES. she can’t be forced into treatment for her mental illness and or addiction until she chooses it. So while it’s difficult watching someone you love do that to themselves, you all struggling right along with her is accomplishing nothing. Set boundaries, stick to them, seek therapy or other ways to cope if it’s available to you. Things may get worse before they get better… if they do get better.
shrimpfajita t1_jed2s3n wrote
Reply to Am I (28nb) being cagey for not wanting to divulge details of previous flings to my current bf (38m) by [deleted]
Not his business at all. He’s weird