sleepingfox307
sleepingfox307 t1_j6pbaoh wrote
Reply to comment by DistraugtlyDistractd in I (22M) broke up with my gf (f21) and I wanted to text her one last thing by [deleted]
Sigh.
I know that pain all too well man, it sucks.
But it sounds like it was mutual and that you both have said all you need to say. Look I totally understand wanting to reach out that one last time, really I do... but it doesn't bring the closure you think it does, trust me.
One day at a time, bro, just keep going.
sleepingfox307 t1_j6p9g8x wrote
Reply to comment by DistraugtlyDistractd in I (22M) broke up with my gf (f21) and I wanted to text her one last thing by [deleted]
Then it's already on her and she knows that.
Move on mate.
This will rub salt in her wounds and leave you waiting and angsty for a response that may likely never come.
Leaving the porch light on is one thing, but this is like leaving the door wide open after kicking someone out, it sends totally mixed messages and it's just going to cause more hurt.
Let it go, move on.
sleepingfox307 t1_iyf99el wrote
Reply to Men of Reddit, when a guy says “i like you because you give me attention” what does that mean? Is that a good thing? Or do i need to run? by [deleted]
Given how affection-starved men can be in this day and age I'd give it the benefit of the doubt, but without a lot more context we can't really yell you
sleepingfox307 t1_j6pbmgb wrote
Reply to comment by DistraugtlyDistractd in I (22M) broke up with my gf (f21) and I wanted to text her one last thing by [deleted]
That's the spirit
These things get easier as time goes by.
You'll be alright!