I have the same issue with cleaning around other people. For me, I've realized that it comes from adults in my life being hypercritical whenever I did chores as a kid. I was expected to help with cleaning from about 8 years old and my mom and grandma would yell at me for doing chores too slow or the "wrong" way even though I was still learning. Not much I can do about it now except raising my own children differently, but being aware of the reason for this hang-up and recognizing that it's irrational definitely helps me.

True Faith by New Order remixed by Shep Pettibone, probably other remixes of his I'm not remembering right now. He shaped 80s club music and even early hip hop in a huge way.

Stretch by Maximum Joy. Not sure if that's enough screaming, but it can give you quite a jump if you're not prepared. I enjoy it because the intensity of the scream "stretches" the listener's preconceptions of what a happy, danceable song should sound like :)