smellyrox
smellyrox t1_jegqb4r wrote
Reply to comment by BeltalowdaOPA22 in My(23F) Bf(24M) shares bites of food with his younger sister by [deleted]
I mean it’s creepy because she’s practically naked all the time when doing so and he’s made sexual jokes about her.
smellyrox t1_jegq76b wrote
Reply to comment by Billmatic- in My(23F) Bf(24M) shares bites of food with his younger sister by [deleted]
How would it change how he views me?
smellyrox t1_jegq2pm wrote
Reply to comment by Embarrassed_Advice59 in My(23F) Bf(24M) shares bites of food with his younger sister by [deleted]
I mean she’s always wearing the tiniest clothes around him and they’re always touching each other and he’s made sexual jokes about her. It all bothers me, just this one is the one I’m really annoyed about because it happened the most recent
smellyrox t1_jegpd5r wrote
Reply to comment by the-mirrors-truth in My(23F) Bf(24M) shares bites of food with his younger sister by [deleted]
They’re super weird with each other and she’s always wearing the tiniest clothes. Is it abnormal for me to sexualize their relationship when I don’t think I could be that comfortable being nearly as naked around my brother unless I were at the beach? In combination with their super close attachment and constant touching, sexual jokes, and sharing food? Like am i really that wrong for hating the dynamic because it feels incestual to me?
smellyrox t1_jego48v wrote
Reply to comment by TattooPuddle in My(23F) Bf(24M) shares bites of food with his younger sister by [deleted]
Their relationship is weird. She (20F) said so herself and I agree. Like they weird me out and this is one thing that I’m like??? Gross? Is it not gross?
smellyrox t1_jegnorb wrote
Reply to comment by the-mirrors-truth in My(23F) Bf(24M) shares bites of food with his younger sister by [deleted]
What of my views are messed up? That I think sharing food with your grown sister as a grown man is kinda weird and gross? I’m curious about what you think.
smellyrox t1_jegnegp wrote
Reply to comment by peakpenguins in My(23F) Bf(24M) shares bites of food with his younger sister by [deleted]
Know what?
smellyrox t1_jegn75w wrote
Reply to comment by ratakat in My(23F) Bf(24M) shares bites of food with his younger sister by [deleted]
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smellyrox t1_jegn6fs wrote
Reply to comment by BeltalowdaOPA22 in My(23F) Bf(24M) shares bites of food with his younger sister by [deleted]
I mean how do you define close? She said that they have a “weirdly close” relationship and I agree. It’s too close for comfort and idk what to do about it. like he treats her almost as if he’s dating her and it’s weird to me because I would be uncomfy if my brother did that. My brother and I are close but I’m not really trying to share food with my bros
smellyrox t1_jegmcvh wrote
Reply to comment by TattooPuddle in My(23F) Bf(24M) shares bites of food with his younger sister by [deleted]
I used to share food in my family until I got a little older and it just got kinda gross for me but I think it bothers me more that it’s between siblings, where saliva is being exchanged, etc. it makes me uncomfortable. Should I tell him? Would that be weird?
smellyrox t1_jegm42a wrote
Reply to comment by peakpenguins in My(23F) Bf(24M) shares bites of food with his younger sister by [deleted]
So I shouldn’t tell him it makes me uncomfortable? They’re super close, his sister has even said that they’re “weirdly close” and I think this aspect is part of the weird close and it grosses me out every time it happens
smellyrox t1_jegl7ik wrote
Reply to comment by EvenOrchid6345 in My(23F) Bf(24M) shares bites of food with his younger sister by [deleted]
She’s not even little, she’s only 4 years younger. Like if she were a kid I’d be like okay that’s fine but because she’s not, it seems inappropriate to me, no?
smellyrox t1_jegkyfk wrote
Reply to comment by peakpenguins in My(23F) Bf(24M) shares bites of food with his younger sister by [deleted]
Really? I come from a family that shares food but I kinda stopped doing that as I got older because the idea of getting my brothers saliva all over my food kinda grossed me out a little. Is it not like kissing your sibling or ..?
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smellyrox t1_jegrabf wrote
Reply to comment by BeltalowdaOPA22 in My(23F) Bf(24M) shares bites of food with his younger sister by [deleted]
I guess I’m just trying to get explanations so I know what the general consensus is. I grew up abused so my judgement on a lot of things is a little skewed sometimes and the only want to make sense of it is to get other peoples thought processes and rationalizations. I’m not arguing to be obtuse, I’m arguing to genuinely learn things that weren’t taught to me when they needed to be taught to me