softshoulder313

softshoulder313 t1_iuk6ww6 wrote

Sounds like a mental illness especially at her age.

Without knowing what you have done is reinforce that if she calls enough you will answer. Stop doing that.

You aren't her mother or therapist. She's an adult on a path she chose. If she didn't think about how she was going to live on her own that's her problem to work out.

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softshoulder313 t1_iuk5utb wrote

If he's as abusive as she says why would she still want anything to do with him let alone be trapped in another country with him for 2 weeks?

And why would someone who treated her so badly be a friend at all?

Something is really weird. If I were you I would rethink this relationship.

She sounds like a hot mess and I wouldn't trust her judgment at all.

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