She should divorce you. She’s just had a baby and you’re moaning about her cooking. Fuck off with your toddler entitlement. You should be cooking for her. Idiot. Or troll.

Ok. He’s mid 20’s and still doesn’t know how to look after himself. He doesn’t care. That’s going to be hard for you to change him so you need to decide if you can live with it.

Why are you dating this immature twat?

You deserve better than her. Stop thinking she’s all you can get. She’s a shit human.

Dump her. You e put up with this crap for 2 years. That’s long enough.

Why are you still with this pig when he’s been treating you like shit for SEVEN fucking years? Why have kids with him?

No. You’ve broken up. This will just be rubbing salt in the wound. You’ll be doing it to give yourself closure not for her.

Stay away and let her start healing. Do t send this.

She’s using you as an emotional crutch to make herself feel better.

All the time she’s hurting with her bf, you’re there to build her up. He should be the one doing that.

She loves having you there to dump on and doesn’t care if it hurts you.

You need to distance yourself because she’s never going to be yours.

And beware, if she dumps him and finds the perfect partner, she will not be there for you any more because she wo t need you.

I’m surprised he still wants to be friends with you. Because you’re not acting like his friend at all.

I thought you were going to say you would t refer him because he would be shit at the job which would be understandable.

But to refuse even though it would benefit him and your company is just you being a shit friend.

Hopefully he will get a good job on his own and ditch you as a crap friend.

Let her go. She’s tried to trust you and forgive you but has quite sensibly decided she can’t.

Don’t be so disingenuous. People don’t download dating apps because they are “bored and horny”. They speak to their partner like an adult about their sexual and emotional life. Or they have a wank.

You can dissemble all you want, but if a girl had asked for a hookup you would have eventually responded.

Is this a real post? You are a teenager who is being controlled and isolated by a man almost old enough to be your father.

Get out of this situation. He doesn’t love or respect you. He wants to financially, emotionally and physically imprison and control you.

He sees you as a naive child he can use and manipulate.

You’re obviously not at all compatible. You can’t change them and they can’t change you.

You should break up with both of them and stop dating until you grow up and learn to think of others before yourself.

You need to be honest with both of them. Running away without telling them the real reason would be cowardly on top of your utterly shite behaviour so far.

Taking responsibility and owning your actions will be the start of your journey from cunt to human.

Did he move straight from his parents house to living with you? I bet he did. He’s just substituting his mother for you.

I suggest you stop doing his laundry. He’ll soon buck up his ideas when he has no clean clothes. Then once you have his attention you can start proper house training.

Fucking leave him!!!

No he won’t. His ego and sense of entitlement is too big. This is manipulation, control and sexual assault.

He’s telling you that he’s neither mature enough nor caring if you enough to think of anything else except his pleasure.

He will rape you one day.

8 years of being second string to his unrequited love. That’s….. dedication.

Peg him and see how he likes being ripped up until he bleeds.

But seriously. He should have prepared properly. You can’t suddenly ram an erect dick into a small hole without proper preparation. Youve probably got a fissure now which will keep flaring up.

Do not let him do this if you don’t want to. You’ve tried it and didn’t like it. He has no right to force you.

If he tries any further coercion be it verbal or physical then that is sexual assault and does not make him a “big goofball”, it makes him a big cunt.

He’s punishing you for breaking up in the most childish way possible. Leading you on then “rejecting” you.

The problem at this stage is you.

You keep taking the twat back.

Just break up again and all this unnecessary juvenile drama will melt away.

Tell her this is what being a responsible adult is all about and she’d better get used to it because it won’t be the last time “life” gets in the way of what she wants.

She’s 22 not 16. Time to grow up.

You are not compatible. End of story.

The age of consent in the UK is 16 for both parties to be of similar age. Not for one to be 16 yr old and to be 40 yr old.

I’m in the UK and over here the legal age applies to teenagers of the SAME AGE.

It does NOT apply to a 40 year old and a legal MINOR. He is a paedo.