Never said he wasn't justified, dude. Just a terrible take away everyone got from the story. She definitely royally fucked up and hes got every right to be beyond pissed so shut up. But from what I've heard from this story he's got an 80% chance of being abusive. From personal experience these are the things I've heard abusive men say.

I'm surprised no one has said anything but wow...that man is abusive af. Sure you fucked up and it was real shity to drive his car with no license. But all that aside, you let him talk to you like that? He sounds like he gaslights you so hard. I hope you can reflect and really take a good look at your relationship. Apologize for the license thing and then run.

In what ways did you think her supervisor was going to "make it better." Would he have put her in the same stressful position you are in now? I mean come on. Take some time to think. You didn't care at all about the consequences.