You’re using emotion to justify who’s right.That’s not how the world or our legal system works. I have two fat cats who feel very strongly resentful about the fact that they’ve been restricted from treats on the vet’s advice- by your logic that makes me a monster.

Of course a family is going to be distressed that their baby died. Of course they’re going to lash out in anger emotionally. That doesn’t make it right.

I’m going to give you a personal example. I grew up in a very cold, very snowy place. Local teenagers liked to race each other on snowmobiles in the ditches alongside the road. 5 kids on 2 snowmobiles were racing each other when they decided to cross in front of a semi. Icy road+a very heavy truck meant that the driver could not stop in time. All 5 kids died. The families blamed the driver, despite the fact that literally nothing he could have done could have changed the circumstances. The blame and hate he received plus his own guilt resulted in him taking his own life a few years later. Those families were not right in what they did, but they couldn’t accept their own responsibility in their children’s death(namely letting 5 kids under 16 use snowmobiles unsupervised alongside a highway to race)

I also suspect that you don’t actually know what spectator bias is

That’s a straw man argument if I’ve ever heard one. You’re placing all the blame externally and none internally, even in your own examples. It’s always the workers fault, and the consumer is innocent in your examples.

If my kids can’t go to school, then my RESPONSIBILITY is to teach them myself. If sanitation isn’t taking out the trash, my RESPONSIBILITY is to clean and figure out a solution so my kids aren’t living in filth.

Similarly, in this very real situation, nurses took responsibility for their own lives. They were put in unsafe working conditions, without sufficient compensation, so they walked out. It is the hospital administration’s responsibility to either get nurses back into the building or to send critical patients to a hospital where they can receive necessary care