Thank you, I appreciate the advice. I am trying to be understanding. I just have never really dealt with this before and my first reaction was to get upset. I don’t even mind he watches porn. I think it’s just hard for me to imagine him getting a lap dance and it makes me jealous.

I understand he can’t read my mind. The issue is I think that we had originally planned for us to go out for a nice dinner that night to celebrate his birthday. But then his friend invited him out and he decided he wanted to go hangout with them instead. I just feel upset that he would rather go to a strip club than celebrate with me

Well kind of, what was he supposed to do? Not go to the bachelor party? Also, this was like a month into our relationship and he didn’t even tell me about it. I heard through other people that there were strippers there

No because he had just went to a bachelor party where they had strippers come to their house. So I didn’t think I had to ask.

I have been to one male “strip club” since we’ve dated. But it was for a bachelorette party and the men weren’t naked or anything. I didn’t get a lap dance or anything either.