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throwrajnbg OP t1_jadd63h wrote
Reply to comment by WildlifePolicyChick in I(F21) need to tell my boyfriend(M26) that I didn't get the abortion by throwrajnbg
I don't think that's what the conversation will be about--assuming if we stay together. More like finances and preparation rather than custody and child support. If we break up, sure, but for now I just want to tell him and see where his head is at. He's a lot more skilled at this adulting thing than I am, given that he's graduated years ago and has a good paying job, so hopefully his reaction will be a lot more better compared to a college student (me, last year)
throwrajnbg OP t1_jad1yrf wrote
Reply to comment by throwaway2161980 in I(F21) need to tell my boyfriend(M26) that I didn't get the abortion by throwrajnbg
Right...cause it is happening. I mean I know it's happening. I bought prenatal vitamins for the first time yesterday, it's happening and I need to include my boyfriend in that. I think I'll ask him to come over today.
throwrajnbg OP t1_jad0w0j wrote
Reply to comment by UsuallyWrite2 in I(F21) need to tell my boyfriend(M26) that I didn't get the abortion by throwrajnbg
Yeah. We're usually very good at this---communication. I feel at ease to tell him practically everything, but this time around it wasn't the case. I will tell him, and especially by tomorrow.
throwrajnbg OP t1_jad0cbj wrote
Reply to comment by RaiseIreSetFires in I(F21) need to tell my boyfriend(M26) that I didn't get the abortion by throwrajnbg
It wasn't weeks, it was 4 days ago. I said I made the appointment weeks ago.
throwrajnbg OP t1_jad07m4 wrote
Reply to comment by trishsf in I(F21) need to tell my boyfriend(M26) that I didn't get the abortion by throwrajnbg
He is supportive and very loving. I just wish I knew his stance on it, what did he want me to do? In this case, I would like for his opinion to influence my decision, despite him thinking it was best if it didn't. I thought so too, but that was before.
throwrajnbg OP t1_jad020v wrote
Reply to comment by WildlifePolicyChick in I(F21) need to tell my boyfriend(M26) that I didn't get the abortion by throwrajnbg
>Welp, you need to get your shit together. Picture or no picture, you have a narrow window of time if in fact you want to terminate.
95% of me is saying that I won't get the abortion anymore. The only other 5% is based on how my boyfriend reacts. So the next step is ultimately telling my boyfriend because I already know how I feel about this, which I will do soon.
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throwrajnbg OP t1_jae1m7w wrote
Reply to comment by WildlifePolicyChick in I(F21) need to tell my boyfriend(M26) that I didn't get the abortion by throwrajnbg
Custody usually refers to a child living in separate homes when their parents are separated, you and I both know that. Child support usually refers to money given by a parent to another parent in order to support the child when the parents are not together, you also know that. Sure, finances and preparation means custody and child support, but you used terminology that is generally used for separated parents while I used terminology that is generally used for parents that are together. Regardless of what you meant, you phrased it in a way that the general public would assume that it be applied to separated parents.