It’s a pithy statement, but it’s true — if you love someone let them go. If they return, it was meant to be, if they don’t, then it wasn’t.

Given how volatile your relationship has been, a break apart may be the “reset” you need.

Your job offers relo, but you’d also have to get a job back in NYC, right?

What’s your end goal? I assume you don’t plan to be long distance forever?