This is such a quality comment. 👏

Hey kid, not only did you not fuck up, you may have saved your dog's life.

If the seizure happened in the dog's sleep, no one may have noticed and the dog could have died. Everyone being awake may be the only reason the dog survives.

I just want you to know how much I respect this comment as well as your original. You must be a great human.

So the first guy didn't want a relationship, but was making constant passive aggressive comments about your sex life?

Honey, he's playing you like an asshole to MAKE you feel this way.

The second guy assaulted you.

This is terrible fiction. 0/10.

Still only worried about yourself.

Also, this is a confession you've written, bud.

Yes you are.

You're literally the person who did it.

Youve committed a heinous criminal act and you deserve exactly what you get.

You are. You did something horrible that hurts people and you've only "stopped" because you were caught and you're afraid of the consequences.

Lol, enjoy prison.

Last I checked, the mandatory minimum for that type of crime was five years minimum, and federal prison requires you to serve 85% of your sentence.

This is a terrible take.

Often people have been assaulted will call it "cheating," because they struggle to acknowledge the assault and blame themselves.

It's incredibly common.

In what way was he going to help?

Why do you need so much help doing your job?

What wasn't getting dealt with?

Be specific.

So basically, you non-consenually forced your kink on someone. That is a fuck up.

So what if I'm on a high horse?

What does that have to do with the point?

Ah yes, ignoring it when it's inconvenient.

Oh I am.

Racists are worth less. The fact that you're trying to argue for racism is absolutely absurd since you're trying to take the moral high route.

It's weird that you're trying to pretend there's an end goal here now because that's the only thing suiting your argument.

It's not my job to try and make racist people change. It's not my obligation or responsibility and it's incredibly racist and sexist of you to suggest otherwise.

Why do you care more about the feelings of the racist than the victims?

Lol, what? No, they won't.

There's ZERO evidence that a stranger on Reddit reading this will take you seriously, particularly when they don't think they're doing anything wrong.

Second, I don't have an obligation to make the OP a better person, because guess what?

I'm more concerned with the victims of racism reading this than I am with OPs little racist feelings that you keep trying to justify.

Considering they're a teenager who has never left the country, no, they weren't.

We have a LOT of information suggesting OP is just a terrible person, including their comment that it was okay to mock a disabled child because the mother "should've given it up."

We actually have quite a bit of information suggesting OP is just, in fact, a terrible person.

And btw, condoning and supporting racism isn't compassion. It's enabling.

No, being scared of an entire country of people because of some unspecified trauma that isn't WWII isn't a normal human response.

It's the response of someone justifying racism.

Maybe you should read the OPs comments before you defend them.

Trauma isn't an excuse for racism, prejudice, or xenophobia.