he deleted texts i’m guessing your boyfriend is still lying to you unfortunately. when his friend comes round ask to borrow his phone and check the chats between them!

no, you broke up. let the poor girl move on.

yeah he’s cheating……. message the sender with his excuse see what they say. you have nothing to lose by doing this. if they say he’s having an affair ask for more proof but honestly i don’t really think you need it!

you sure your not just the bit on the side? confront him ffs

he’s checked out and doesn’t even know it. you need couples therapy asap you need to make time for it.

what’s the point? she might know about you and they already have the story. she may tell you they did hook up but you probably will still stay. you decided to work it out, leave it at that. but just be prepared for heartache down the road.

you gut is probably right but i wouldn’t rush into anything. take you time deciding what’s right for you. but do see a lawyer to see where you stand with that.