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trees1nthewind t1_jaf1iv2 wrote
Reply to comment by Throwaway445092345 in I was right (29M). Girlfriend (22F) is dating the guy she told me not to worry about (23M). How do I fix this? by [deleted]
How is she nice when she blocked you and was with another guy for your, I would assume, relationship? Or did you just think yall were together?
trees1nthewind t1_jaf1adj wrote
Reply to comment by ThrowRaKokiele in Should I (18F) move out to my boyfriend's (18M) country or stay here? by ThrowRaKokiele
You make the judgement because you know your life best. At the end of the day whether you go or not it will be up to you. We're just here to give you some food for thought.
trees1nthewind t1_jaf0xww wrote
Reply to I was right (29M). Girlfriend (22F) is dating the guy she told me not to worry about (23M). How do I fix this? by [deleted]
Yo, stop. Leave and start anew.
trees1nthewind t1_jaf0sl7 wrote
Reply to comment by ThrowRaKokiele in Should I (18F) move out to my boyfriend's (18M) country or stay here? by ThrowRaKokiele
So list out some pros and cons other than your bf and come back an reexamine whether you want to go.
trees1nthewind t1_jaf0ogl wrote
Reply to I (23F) moved home after college because my dad (53M) was dying of cancer. Well, he died, and I want to move out now, but if I do I will leave my mom (52F) all alone in a tiny town with nobody by nintengrl
Move out. Your mom is not your responsibility, especially since she does not view you as an adult.
trees1nthewind t1_jaezrca wrote
Reply to comment by ThrowRaKokiele in Should I (18F) move out to my boyfriend's (18M) country or stay here? by ThrowRaKokiele
Rely on your parents or on him. Just misspelled a word.
trees1nthewind t1_jaeyols wrote
Reply to comment by ThrowRaKokiele in Should I (18F) move out to my boyfriend's (18M) country or stay here? by ThrowRaKokiele
Honestly that really depends on you because it's different for everyone. But 18 isn't really it for most people
trees1nthewind t1_jaeylt6 wrote
Reply to comment by ThrowRaKokiele in Should I (18F) move out to my boyfriend's (18M) country or stay here? by ThrowRaKokiele
How would you support yourself financially then? Rely on your parents on him? Honestly for me 50/50 is not good enough of a ratio.
trees1nthewind t1_jaewtev wrote
Reply to comment by trees1nthewind in Should I (18F) move out to my boyfriend's (18M) country or stay here? by ThrowRaKokiele
Also your 18, these are not the best years neither are they the only best years of your life
trees1nthewind t1_jaewpap wrote
Reply to comment by ThrowRaKokiele in Should I (18F) move out to my boyfriend's (18M) country or stay here? by ThrowRaKokiele
Go if you are going more for your education. Of course being with your bf is a plus but shouldn't be the main reason. Also definitely consider being independent of him. Like living on your own, having your own friends, financially separated etc.
trees1nthewind t1_jaevrxo wrote
Reply to comment by KillerKittenInPJs in 44 f wants to reconnect with 38 m coworker of 1 year by KillerKittenInPJs
I mean if you want to hangout and stuff you could try.
trees1nthewind t1_jaev9r7 wrote
Reply to comment by KillerKittenInPJs in 44 f wants to reconnect with 38 m coworker of 1 year by KillerKittenInPJs
And why do you want to check now?
trees1nthewind t1_jaev4td wrote
Reply to comment by ThrowRaKokiele in Should I (18F) move out to my boyfriend's (18M) country or stay here? by ThrowRaKokiele
If you see yourself living there and that's a place of interest then no one can stop you
trees1nthewind t1_jaeutn7 wrote
Reply to comment by KillerKittenInPJs in 44 f wants to reconnect with 38 m coworker of 1 year by KillerKittenInPJs
Like did yall ever hang out or talk about more friends things. No everyday chit chat with coworkers but like more things that would constitue a more than coworker relationship.
trees1nthewind t1_jaeumcl wrote
I do not advise moving to another country for a significant other, especially at such a young age. Do you see a future in South Korea or elsewhere? What happens if things don't work out with your bf? Moving to a place where you know no one besides one person can be extremely isolating.
trees1nthewind t1_jaeu422 wrote
Imfo: Did yall have a we can talk relationship before?
trees1nthewind t1_jae51ds wrote
Reply to My (25f) friend (24f) is friends with people who are bullying me and Idk what to do. by throwaway983903
Definitely distance.
trees1nthewind t1_iyex98p wrote
Reply to How to convince husband to get a puppy? by [deleted]
Try taking him to a place where he can interact with dogs
trees1nthewind t1_iye9gyc wrote
Reply to is this cheating? by [deleted]
To me it sounds like cheating
trees1nthewind t1_jaf4tnf wrote
Reply to comment by Throwaway445092345 in I was right (29M). Girlfriend (22F) is dating the guy she told me not to worry about (23M). How do I fix this? by [deleted]
Yeah, yall broke up. She don't want you no more. So move on