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trusty20 t1_j91idr6 wrote
Reply to comment by PhillipsAsunder in [Image] 50 empowering quotes from fictional female characters. by quitecanton91
"I am......... Rey... Skywalkuh"
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Reply to comment by ElegantCherries in How do you get yourself motivated when you've always been driven by threat/anxiety/trauma? [Discussion] by ElegantCherries
No prob!
trusty20 t1_j8ffjdd wrote
Reply to How do you get yourself motivated when you've always been driven by threat/anxiety/trauma? [Discussion] by ElegantCherries
What you described is screaming that you should read "The Now Habit" by clinical psychologist Neil Fiore. I mention his credentials because the book is based on his clinical practice instead of being your usual self-help guru book. Pretty concrete practical stuff. He talks about various negative motivational styles and how they can be retrained to more proactive styles, and how you can embrace gradual improvements rejecting extreme goalsetting. Pretty big focus on CBT based therapy, which is a pretty universally accepted therapeutic method.
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Reply to [Image] Keep Going! by ZGeekie
There is a balance between both choices depicted in this image. Giving up on an idea that is not producing success for you is not shameful, that's self-improvement. The key is to find a new idea or path.
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Reply to comment by [deleted] in A duo of cranberry sauce [homemade] [I ate] by Turtleramem
It's from an era that believed deeply that anything could and should be made into jello form, for every meal
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Reply to comment by FartKilometre in This new Stanley tape measures is missing a few marks between 24 and 25... by Jay_Ray
Lmao its literally a strip of metal with numbers and lines on it. Nobody needs to "steal" somebody elses strip of numbers and lines lol.