typhlosion109 t1_jegzcb8 wrote on March 31, 2023 at 11:11 PM Reply to comment by RevolutionaryHat8988 in 42M 40F 17yr relationship - Husband trying not to look elsewhere for sexual gratification by ThrowRA9985 If my partner was video chatting with a friend in a sexual manner I'd consider it cheating. If he's doing it with a Stanger and paying her I'd still consider it cheating. It's not the same thing as porn. He interacted with another woman sexually. That fact that he paid her for it doesn't make it any better. She deserves to know he stepped out of their marriage so she can make a informed decision on if she even wants to try and fix the issue at this point. Permalink Parent 17
typhlosion109 t1_jegzcb8 wrote
Reply to comment by RevolutionaryHat8988 in 42M 40F 17yr relationship - Husband trying not to look elsewhere for sexual gratification by ThrowRA9985
If my partner was video chatting with a friend in a sexual manner I'd consider it cheating.
If he's doing it with a Stanger and paying her I'd still consider it cheating.
It's not the same thing as porn. He interacted with another woman sexually. That fact that he paid her for it doesn't make it any better.
She deserves to know he stepped out of their marriage so she can make a informed decision on if she even wants to try and fix the issue at this point.