I was SA'd as a child and never told anyone about it until a year later. It was my best friend at the time that I told, we were outside playing in the snow at night and I just came clean to her about it because I had to tell someone it happened.
She told me I need to tell my parents, I was at my mom's at the time and I told her and then we spoke to my dad. We called the police and they couldn't do anything about it since it was so long ago.
My childhood was robbed and he took that away from me and will continue walking free and who knows who else he's done it to. Worst part was his parents thought I was lying and then spread lies to the other neighborhood kids parents so then their kids weren't allowed to play with me anymore. Everyone gave me the cold shoulder because her teen son decided to rape me multiple times. It fucks with me SO bad now that I'm almost 30 and sometimes I wanna die.
Please confide in your mom, she's there for you and she will continue being there for you.
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I was SA'd as a child and never told anyone about it until a year later. It was my best friend at the time that I told, we were outside playing in the snow at night and I just came clean to her about it because I had to tell someone it happened. She told me I need to tell my parents, I was at my mom's at the time and I told her and then we spoke to my dad. We called the police and they couldn't do anything about it since it was so long ago. My childhood was robbed and he took that away from me and will continue walking free and who knows who else he's done it to. Worst part was his parents thought I was lying and then spread lies to the other neighborhood kids parents so then their kids weren't allowed to play with me anymore. Everyone gave me the cold shoulder because her teen son decided to rape me multiple times. It fucks with me SO bad now that I'm almost 30 and sometimes I wanna die. Please confide in your mom, she's there for you and she will continue being there for you.