You've been on 3 dates with the guy. You're not bf/gf. He was upfront about the fact that he has plans for NYE and, due to the party being hosted by others, he doesn't feel right inviting you. So no, it's not only not right for you to "expect" anything at the moment, to even think of trying to push a "but I'm seeing the guy and he wants to spend time with others" would be a total red flag for me.
valeran46 t1_j2f57xe wrote
Reply to [28M][27F] [29F] Guy I am seeing is spending his new year with his female friend. Should I end things? by [deleted]
You've been on 3 dates with the guy. You're not bf/gf. He was upfront about the fact that he has plans for NYE and, due to the party being hosted by others, he doesn't feel right inviting you. So no, it's not only not right for you to "expect" anything at the moment, to even think of trying to push a "but I'm seeing the guy and he wants to spend time with others" would be a total red flag for me.