vegancrossfiter t1_jdhf07x wrote

I dont really like this mentality because it makes you work just so that you can show off to other people who at the end of a day dont give a fuck about you and dont like you. You might impress them for a minute or two and then they will forget about it and go on about their day. Just do it for yourself and for a better life, haters will hate no matter what you do.


vegancrossfiter t1_j18ckcw wrote

Funny thing is, Ive had multiple prolonged periods of time (6+ months) where I did everything I had to do on daily bases despite not wanting to do it. I was very dedicated and determined but what that did afterwards was put me in a prolonged state of depression, anxiety and procrastination because I was so fed up with giving it my all that I didnt want to do anything anymore.