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vitalvisionary t1_jdie4q1 wrote
Reply to comment by Jackers83 in 'We cannot remain complacent.' ADL reports antisemitic incidents in Connecticut doubled in 2022 by jaydecay123
Sorry man, understanding is hard, change is even harder. Even though I disagree with you, you seem like an alright guy. Maybe you took some things I said too personally but this is a subject I am passionate about and know I can come off forceful. I sincerely wish you well.
vitalvisionary t1_jdi9u48 wrote
Reply to comment by Jackers83 in 'We cannot remain complacent.' ADL reports antisemitic incidents in Connecticut doubled in 2022 by jaydecay123
Hey how about explaining how this isn't a problematic statement instead of making a silly metaphor about it? Seems like you're trying to distract from explaining yourself beyond a shoulder shrug emoji. If you think bringing up Nazis and WWII isn't relevant in a discussion about antisemitic hate crimes on the rise than I think you're just obtuse.
vitalvisionary t1_jdi8mqj wrote
Reply to comment by Jackers83 in 'We cannot remain complacent.' ADL reports antisemitic incidents in Connecticut doubled in 2022 by jaydecay123
Dude, come on
>We can’t make people stop being racist assholes. There is always going to be hate in the world.
Imagine applying this logic to the Nazis during WWII. Do you see the issue yet?
vitalvisionary t1_jdi7w23 wrote
Reply to comment by Jackers83 in 'We cannot remain complacent.' ADL reports antisemitic incidents in Connecticut doubled in 2022 by jaydecay123
I'm quite aware. Notice how I used the phrase "too afraid." Maybe I was being redundant. If you think it means something else I suggest googling it.
vitalvisionary t1_jdi7d9w wrote
Reply to comment by Jackers83 in 'We cannot remain complacent.' ADL reports antisemitic incidents in Connecticut doubled in 2022 by jaydecay123
And it's not more simplistic to write the problems of the world off as unsolvable? You come off as craven, too afraid of complicated issues and finds ignoring them more convenient. If that's not how you feel you might want to work on how you share your opinion.
vitalvisionary t1_jdi6cxt wrote
Reply to comment by Jackers83 in 'We cannot remain complacent.' ADL reports antisemitic incidents in Connecticut doubled in 2022 by jaydecay123
Again?
>We can’t make people stop being racist assholes. There is always going to be hate in the world.
This is mollifying racism. You may be right, you may not be. Declaring this true undermines the efforts of being trying to solve the problem. Even if futile, it is a noble sisyphean task.
vitalvisionary t1_jdi4axb wrote
Reply to comment by Jackers83 in 'We cannot remain complacent.' ADL reports antisemitic incidents in Connecticut doubled in 2022 by jaydecay123
Hey man, I'm not the one defending the mollifying of racism, you are. I never said I thought you condone it, but you obviously have some things to learn about how racism works in a society. It's a lot more complicated than just someone hating someone who looks different.
vitalvisionary t1_jdi3shy wrote
Reply to comment by usernamedunbeentaken in 'We cannot remain complacent.' ADL reports antisemitic incidents in Connecticut doubled in 2022 by jaydecay123
Well then you need to work on your empirical evidence evaluation and learn the difference between unsubstantiated opinions and provable facts. Ya know, reason it out.
vitalvisionary t1_jdi3j07 wrote
Reply to comment by usernamedunbeentaken in 'We cannot remain complacent.' ADL reports antisemitic incidents in Connecticut doubled in 2022 by jaydecay123
Oh boy, here we go. Using buzzwords you don't even know the meaning of like "virtue signaling" (utterly meaningless on a site where you're anonymous).
You know what that tells me about you? It says you think everyone is just like you but are lying. I'm sorry if you feel insecure so you need to project your crap on everyone else to make yourself feel better. Maybe stop and think about why people might disagree with you instead of calling them liars?
vitalvisionary t1_jdi2f86 wrote
Reply to comment by Specialist-Lion-8135 in 'We cannot remain complacent.' ADL reports antisemitic incidents in Connecticut doubled in 2022 by jaydecay123
I've seen Connecticut make some amazing changes since I was a scared little kid being tormented for being different. I would like to continue that work so no one has to grow up like I did.
vitalvisionary t1_jdi1aic wrote
Reply to comment by Jackers83 in 'We cannot remain complacent.' ADL reports antisemitic incidents in Connecticut doubled in 2022 by jaydecay123
How was I advocating for any of that? There are plenty of nonviolent ways to deal with racism. I even made suggestions here in this post. If those are the only options you think there are to racism than you obviously haven't done much research. Maybe start by reading some of MLK's work. He had a lot of good suggestions.
vitalvisionary t1_jdhzq0u wrote
Reply to comment by Jackers83 in 'We cannot remain complacent.' ADL reports antisemitic incidents in Connecticut doubled in 2022 by jaydecay123
> We can’t make people stop being racist assholes. There is always going to be hate in the world.
How did I put those words in your mouth? Perhaps you need to work on what you actually mean by that.
vitalvisionary t1_jdhzg8i wrote
Reply to comment by Pruedrive in 'We cannot remain complacent.' ADL reports antisemitic incidents in Connecticut doubled in 2022 by jaydecay123
Yup, all those "great people" were told to "stand down and stand by"
vitalvisionary t1_jdhz1gf wrote
Reply to comment by Jackers83 in 'We cannot remain complacent.' ADL reports antisemitic incidents in Connecticut doubled in 2022 by jaydecay123
That's defeatist, lazy, and no consolation to victims. I suppose you think we shouldn't do more about rape because there's always going to be rape in the world? Why have cops of people are going to commit crimes anyway? Society will never be perfect but we should always strive for a more perfect union. Kinda the point of the whole thing IMO.
vitalvisionary t1_jdhyc5i wrote
Reply to comment by Jackers83 in 'We cannot remain complacent.' ADL reports antisemitic incidents in Connecticut doubled in 2022 by jaydecay123
>This person is clearly acknowledging that there is always some amount of perpetual racism, bigotry etc.
Ok but that wasn't all he said. Taken as a whole it's excusing it as just a byproduct of society. That's an awfully convenient thing for people who don't care about or support racism. Like hearing rape statistics and saying "Oh well, boys will be boys!"
vitalvisionary t1_jdhxont wrote
Reply to comment by usernamedunbeentaken in 'We cannot remain complacent.' ADL reports antisemitic incidents in Connecticut doubled in 2022 by jaydecay123
Well see one is true and one isn't. It's quite obvious to this reasonable person.
vitalvisionary t1_jdhxazx wrote
Reply to comment by usernamedunbeentaken in 'We cannot remain complacent.' ADL reports antisemitic incidents in Connecticut doubled in 2022 by jaydecay123
If Omar is antisemitic for what she said than so is Bernie Sanders for agreeing with her.
There's a big difference voting for someone who happens to criticize Israel and voting in someone who thinks Jews control the weather with space lasers.
vitalvisionary t1_jdhwpym wrote
Reply to comment by Specialist-Lion-8135 in 'We cannot remain complacent.' ADL reports antisemitic incidents in Connecticut doubled in 2022 by jaydecay123
I grew up with a lot of racism light. Unfortunately calling them out doesn't always work on its own merits. You get a lot of "I was just kidding!" or "No one can joke around anymore!" I have found the most effective way to counter this is to attack their maturity. I tell them that poopy jokes are funny to little kids, then they grow up and make sexist/homophobic jokes during puberty, and racist jokes in hight school. It all about being edgy to higher and higher degrees. More mature kids don't even need to make these jokes, it's just the ones with with lingering insecurity, needing to take someone else down a peg to feel better about themselves.
Just a joke? Grow up and learn that there are consequences for not being a responsible adult.
This does not work for the hardcore adherents though. Those are the ones that don't cite humor as a retort but start reciting "facts" about certain races or gender identity, etc. I would recommend The Alt-right Playbook on YouTube and street epistemology for the fully brainwashed. The best you can do is learn their tactics and how to dismantle them.
Edit: Seems I triggered a lot of people with this comment. Did I strike a nerve?
vitalvisionary t1_jdhutkt wrote
Reply to comment by usernamedunbeentaken in 'We cannot remain complacent.' ADL reports antisemitic incidents in Connecticut doubled in 2022 by jaydecay123
Or maybe because we have celebrities on the news spreading their hate and being excused by people like you.
vitalvisionary t1_jdhu58k wrote
Reply to comment by Jackers83 in 'We cannot remain complacent.' ADL reports antisemitic incidents in Connecticut doubled in 2022 by jaydecay123
He's mollifying hate crimes as "discrimination." Discrimination is not letting certain people in your business, not seeking out people to victimize. There's a difference. Not knowing that difference is ignorance. Plus he's trying to downplay it as a "diversity" problem and not that big a deal per capita. These are common tactics of people like fucker carlson who then slip in more extreme rhetoric over time.
vitalvisionary t1_jdhmywa wrote
Reply to comment by jlevnhv in I Don’t F*ck With Yalies Because They Leave by jlevnhv
In my experience, they let you know pretty quick.
vitalvisionary t1_jdhmfil wrote
Reply to comment by AtheismTooStronk in I Don’t F*ck With Yalies Because They Leave by jlevnhv
I think it's more a feature of being raised rich and privileged than the universities fault. Hell, my college was known for having spoiled brats as students but pushed diversity requirements for GE and every major separately. Still has racist fascists as graduates. Then again, most of the money the school gets is from donations to the petroleum engineering and business school and I don't know what their requirements are
vitalvisionary t1_jdhigwv wrote
Reply to comment by Sufficient_Mirror_12 in I Don’t F*ck With Yalies Because They Leave by jlevnhv
Not in my experience but it's all subjective.
vitalvisionary t1_jdfmd0t wrote
Reply to comment by Goodbye_megaton in I Don’t F*ck With Yalies Because They Leave by jlevnhv
They're very specialized. They know a lot about something very specific. A lot of them think that means they know about everything else. It's the Dunning-Kruger effect.
vitalvisionary t1_jdisos7 wrote
Reply to Typical Connecticut Attractions by nickrac
Hey! We have Mark Twain's old house! And some nice art museums! Ummm... is Peabody still under renovation? Mystic is a fairly decent aquarium! Then... hmmmm... it's very pretty in the fall!
Oh yeah and we have a lot of new breweries! Hope you like IPAs...