I understand wanting to tip 20% as i also do this.... however if i did all that stuff for my wife and she was more interested in the waiter or waitresses tip than anything else id bee upset w her too. I get it that u should tip well, i agree that u should. But he was trying to show u a good night and celebrate you and u were hung up on money.

Forgiving her will tell her its ok for her to do so again bc u wont have the nerve to do anything about it. She made her choice when she cheated... u deserve better

Do u want to live forever worrying about who shes around and working with?

Only entertain this if u are comfortable.... as it sounds u are not interested... he should be able to understand. Maybe hes hoping u say yes so he can use that as an excuse to eventually bring in another woman. This relationship needs defined boundries to survive... good luck

Youre his placeholder till she warms to the idea of a relationship.... u need to cut your losses and exit.

That wasnt a lie... he IS attracted to you as a curvy woman. A person can be attracted to many things about a woman... he may not have a "type" as i dont myself. Ive dated many different women and all i thought were beautiful although if u had them stand in a line shoulder to shoulder youd be amazed at the variations. Bottom line is if he is attracted to you, which id assume he was bc u guys are together, then why does it bother u? Hes with u.... chose u. U may not be the same body type that he watches on porn (hell most people are not that body type) but he obviously has chose u.

First off my wife is a curvy large busted woman... i 110% love her and find her beautiful.... men look at "porn" of every type. I personally love gothic women, tattoos etc.... my wife is not like that at all... i also find oriental women beautiful but none of that would ever change the fact that i love and desire my wife....

Is there not a celebrity or musician that u find attractive that is opposite of your man? Its no different...