you probably meant this as a funny comment, but honestly, shit like this drives me up a wall. I've felt like I had to get less friendly over time because people love to interpret it as an opening. NYC RBF is armour against dudes following you for a block trying to ask you more about yourself.
are people incapable of being friendly to others without wanting to get into their pants or some other transaction? why the compulsion to read romantic intent into everything?
if kindness were less conditional, maybe we'd be able to express it more freely.
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Reply to comment by wXy_5GHz in I just wanted to ask a girl for directions on the subway, and she absolutely made my day by skyeyemx
you probably meant this as a funny comment, but honestly, shit like this drives me up a wall. I've felt like I had to get less friendly over time because people love to interpret it as an opening. NYC RBF is armour against dudes following you for a block trying to ask you more about yourself.
are people incapable of being friendly to others without wanting to get into their pants or some other transaction? why the compulsion to read romantic intent into everything?
if kindness were less conditional, maybe we'd be able to express it more freely.