wandrlusty

wandrlusty t1_j1adcvp wrote

Reply to LPT: Don't spy on your SO to try to catch them cheating. If you can't trust them, just break up. by 5YOChemist

I disagree. The complete closure, confirmation that you were correct in your suspensions, and relief can actually be sheer joy. The definitive knowledge that they were cheating, and then not having to second-guess yourself, wonder if you’re judging them to harshly, and go mentally crazy from the gaslighting is TOTALLY WORTH IT.

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