Went to the hospital, thought I was dying…was severely tachycardic, light headed, dizzy…. It was a traumatic experience.

Ok. Well then just be extra kind to her and don’t have any negative comments.

Again - she just went though a huge medical trauma to give you a child. You can be extra nice to her right now while she’s sensitive.

You stop seeing him. Do you want to be his mother? Honestly this dude is gross and has a lot of growing up to do.

…did you express dissatisfaction in her food? How did you word this? This seems purposefully vague in order for you to blame her.

Just be nice. She just went through a huge medical trauma. The fact that she’s still cooking for YOU…you should be taking care of her…cherishing her. She brought you a child. You can learn manners.

OCD subreddit is great.

Also - my bf says lexapro 🤣😅🤣

The only moving on is moving on without him. The first time was unforgivable. The second time means he WILL KEEP DOING IT.

Idgaf how nice he is when he isn’t raping you - and neither should you.

Please leave him.

I think you need to adjust your expectations. I’m also in my 30s and see this as pretty normal.

It could be a few weeks to a couple months between hang out sessions. We’re all busy. Especially if they got married…or if they work a weird schedule or live more than 10 minutes away. Also- what else is going on in their life? Did they start a new job, going through a renovation, just have a kid, ect.

I agree the ghosting is hurtful. I do forget to text back sometimes. But only you can differentiate if it’s someone forgetting to text back or if they truly don’t value you. Also - what are you texting? Is it a blank “hey” or is it “hey let’s get together soon. When are you free?”.

I’d stop reaching out and see if they do. Then you’ll know for sure.

Because I’ve moved on

I never ever respond to exes. It’s weird that you expect a response.

Yeah I say post lol. Maybe that makes me insensitive but I see no issue. It’s one thing to brag about being happy to her personally, but just seeing this on social media is totally cool in my book. If she doesn’t want to see anything like that, she needs to be off social media.

I’m so confused why you wouldn’t post at all?? He wasn’t your boyfriend…so it’s not like you having a bf is bad???

I get not talking to her about how great things are for you, but your social media is yours. How you spend your time is not up to her. She can’t expect to see her feed empty of people having fun. You can also adjust privacy so she doesn’t see the post.