Yeah, thinking of all the bad things that can happen is definitely making me steer the other way. Thanks for the input!

Unfortunately not. That would have made things much easier!

Yikeeeees! Sorry it was worse case scenario! Definitely Noted!

Thank you for the reply and we’ll wishes. Yeah I’m thinking if we go that route of keeping my name on the mortgage I would only allow a certain amount of years. We talked about 2 years with monthly payments and my name has to be off by X date.

Thank you so much for taking the time out on this reply. My head is kinda exactly where yours is at on this. The equal division makes a ton of sense. I thought about getting an appraisal soon to see if the cost of the house has went up and from there decide an initial payment from her. From there I would have something that states my name could be on the mortgage for X amount of years and by a certain time my name has to be off. We talked about 2 years to allow some time for interest rates to drop (or increase which would suck for her lol) During that time there could be a monthly comp until my name is completely off. At this time maybe another appraisal and split payment on that as well? I don’t know just spitballin lol.

Thank you for the advice! Yes the deed debt thing, I’m glad I am aware of this!

Thanks for the input! Noted

No kids involved. She has a son but from a past relationship. And yes agreed. We are both talking to divorce lawyers now to get things going. Our bank accounts were all separate, no prenup, she gave me back my half of the house down payment as well as the car down payment when I moved out.